
George asks…
Bridesmaids gifts…when to give?
I purchased earring and necklace sets for my bridesmaids, and little clutch bags as well. I know it’s custom to give them out at the rehearsal dinner, but I’m not quite sure what to say when my bridesmaids ask what they should wear for jewelry. Should I tell them what their gifts will be now so they don’t go spend the money, will that spoil the surprise? Or should I have a get-together now (luncheon) and give them to them sooner? Wedding is on 10/20. Thanks for the advice!
crystal power answers:
Well, the one wedding I was in where the bride gave us jewelry for the wedding, we were told in advance that would be her gift to us. We just didn’t know precisely what it would look like until we opened the boxes. It was just fine.
If you do decide, though, to hand out the gifts at an early luncheon rather than the rehearsal dinner, be sure your guy knows to give his attendants their gifts before the rehearsal dinner, too.
Either telling them and giving the jewelry at the rehearsal dinner or giving them as a true surprise in advance is perfectly fine. The important thing is that either everyone receives their gifts at the rehearsal dinner, or nobody does.

Michael asks…
What type of gift should I give to my ring bearer and his mom?
My ring bearer is the 4 year old son of my fiance’s older sister. Her husband is one of the groomsmen. I get along fabulously with her and think she’s great so I want to give them all three gifts to show our appreciation for being in the wedding party. My fiance is planning on getting the groomsmen some sort of engraved flasks or shot glasses or something but we’re running short on time (21 days until the rehearsal dinner).. Pretty much all other wedding details are finalized except for gifts for the mothers, fathers, groomsmen, ring bearer and ring bearer’s momma my future SIL. I wanted to get my dad a big bottle of his favorite liquor (wild turkey) but I’m not sure I would be able to get the same thing for my fiance’s father b/c my future mother in law already thinks he drinks too much, even though I know my future father in law would like that sort of gift.. :- I already have the bridesmaids gifts (pearl jewelry sets) and wanted to keep the gifts the same or similar for both sets of parents so no one feels favored more than the other… for example I was thinking of getting the moms a bracelet as well as a picture frame with engagement photo in them… and of course personalized thank you cards to everyone..
crystal power answers:
I would get your SIL a gift similar to the bridesmaids gifts with a little note telling her how much she means to you. For your ring bearer, get him a toy. Maybe something he can play with at the reception. You FIL’s gift is tricky. It might be best to let your fiance pick something out for him. You don’t want to get him booze if it will anger your futer MIL! The gifts for the moms sounds perfect!! Congrats!

Paul asks…
Need: Pearl Necklace, bracelet & ear-rings for bridesmaids! CHEAP!?
I’m in search of cheap jewelry for my bridesmaids. I want them to wear pearls to kinda match me. Since I will be wearing pearls. We are having a beach wedding.
I don’t want to spend more then $15-$20 on each set. Since we are also getting our bridal party a 30 min. massage the day of the wedding.
crystal power answers:
Here is a set with earrings & necklace on overstock for $9.99ea (which is REALLY cheap), but I don’t know if the look is OK for your needs:
http://www.overstock.com/Jewelry-Watches/Sterling-Silver-Pearl-and-Diamond-Accent-Pendant-and-Earring-Set/4405145/product.html
I am a big fan of overstock
If you are willing to consider faux pearls, hereis an option:
http://www.sears.com/shc/s/p_10153_12605_00422200199P?srccode=cii_5784816&cpncode=21-89333428-2&i_cntr=1292257437702&sid=IDx20070921x00003h

Betty asks…
How much are you planning to spend or did you spend on bridesmaids gifts and Groomsman Gifts?
I have 3 total bridesmaids and My fiance has 3 Groomsmen..The bridesmaids are my sisters and I was thinking about buying them jewelry for the wedding day and then maybe a $50 gift card to somewhere..Do you think this is to much or too little? My mom paid for their dresses so that was one less thing that they had to buy, but I wanted your opinion.. Also, if you could give me some tips as to what you are buying for your bridal party so I can just gather some ideas because I am not set in stone on the jewelry and gift card..Thanks!
crystal power answers:
Just the piece of jewelry to be worn on the wedding day (pearl neclace) or earrings. For guys I am at a loss. They might get a gift card. If they need cuff links, that would be an idea.

Daniel asks…
bridesmaids gifts!! help!!?
My wedding is May 3rd and I haven’t found anything for my girls. I have 5 girls in my wedding. I wasn’t planning on spending a whole lot (def not more than $100) total. My mom bought me tote bags that say “bridesmaid” on them and I want to fill them with goodies they will need for the wedding and can use after. Anyone know any sites where I can get small lots of goodies (mini manicure sets, make up, jewelry, candy, toiletries, ect..) I might just go on ebay and see what I can find. Any sites/ideas will be appreciated. Thanks!!
Ps. My girls range from 10 to 27 years old and they are all different sizes so everything will need to be used for any age/size
crystal power answers:
First off… Great idea! I am doing the same thing for my girls. I went on ebay and didn’t have a ton of luck finding anything that wasn’t sold as a “wedding day survival kit”, and they were pretty expensive. I just plan on heading to Target to pick up all that little stuff. You can buy a ton in the travel size, so that will save you some money there. Also, if you go to a place like that you can pick up cheap little flip flops or slippers for the girls to wear at the reception. Good luck!
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